...About Abstinence Education
There are many inaccuracies about abstinence education and/or Choosing the Best that have circulated in the media and on websites of organizations which fundamentally oppose abstinence education. Below you will find the facts, beginning with a clarification of terms: “Abstinence only” sex education This is a legislative term for sex education materials that meet the federal definition of abstinence education, established in section 510 of the 1996 Welfare Reform Act (also referred to as “Title V”), outlined in conditions A-H.1 (Click here to view conditions A-H in detail.) Choosing the Best meets the criteria specified in A-H. Promoting abstinence is the exclusive purpose of Choosing the Best and other authentic abstinence programs. “Comprehensive” or “Abstinence-plus” sex education The primary purpose of comprehensive sex education is to promote contraceptive useparticularly condom useamong teens. In recent years, abstinence has been added to these curricula, often in the form of a single session as opposed to a major theme or emphasis, with some of these programs now referring to their materials as “abstinence plus.”
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| ABSTINENCE (Choosing the Best) |
COMPREHENSIVE (Contraceptive Based) | |
| Emphasis on abstinence | Choosing the Best devotes nearly 70% of page content to promoting abstinence; other abstinence programs on average devote 54%.12 | Devote less than 5% of their page content to abstinence. Allocate six times more content to the goal of promoting contraception than to the goal of promoting abstinence.13 |
| Focus | Risk elimination. (abstinence) | Risk reduction. (contraceptive use, especially condoms) |
| Message | Focused. (Abstinence until marriage is clearly the BEST choice.) | Mixed. (EITHER abstinence OR having sex with a condom are equally good choices; or, abstinence is marginally better than having sex with contraception.) |
| Philosophy | a) Teen sex and/or casual sex is problematic, even if contraception is used, based on risk of STDs, pregnancy, and negative emotional consequences. | a) As long as contraception is used, teen sex and/or casual sex is unproblematic. There are no potential negative emotional consequences. |
| b) Armed with full information about the risks of teen sex and the benefits of abstinence, teens CAN and DO choose to refrain from having sex. (The majority of teens today53%have not had sex.13) | b) Teen sex is expected and inevitable. | |
| Behavioral Goal | Delayed sexual initiation or “renewed virginity.” | Increased contraceptive use, especially the condom. |
In a 2007 national Zogby poll:
Comprehensive sex education advocates often claim that showing students age-appropriate slides of common sexually transmitted diseases is a “scare tactic.” Yet four million teens contract an STD every year.15 This is why every effective resource should be utilized to help young people realize the serious nature of these diseases, some of which are incurable and life threatening. All facts presented are sourced from research published in peer-reviewed journals and are confirmed by the Centers for Disease Control (CDC). Although a presentation of STDs is included in Choosing the Best LIFE, PATH, and JOURNEY, it represents only one out of eight content sessions.
Along with educating about the risks of premarital sex, Choosing the Best educates students that abstaining from sex as a teenager offers incredible freedomfreedom to pursue goals, dreams, and to enjoy being a teenagerand that sex is wonderful and appropriate in the context of marriage. Choosing the Best also addresses the needs of students who have already been sexually active by teaching that students can still chooseand benefit fromchoosing abstinence from this day forward (i.e., “renewed virginity”)![]()
Normal adolescent curiosity is a part of growing up, and the media message that pre-marital sex is expected, fun and has no consequences has a powerful influence on young people. However, when given the facts concerning the physical and emotional risks of sexual activity and the rewards of being abstinent being able to pursue goals and dreams, often not possible with an unplanned pregnancy or disease the majority of teens today are choosing abstinence. Recent reports from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention show that the rates of teen sexual activity have dropped by nearly 14 percent between 1991 and 2003,16 and that 53 percent of the decline in teen pregnancy is a result of increased abstinence.17
Choosing the Best knows that not every teen will abstain from having sex, just as not every teen who knows the risks of smoking will choose not to smoke. However, the goal of abstinence education is to help teens understand that abstinence is best for their health and future. Abstinence education provides teens with the facts about the negative emotional and physical consequences of pre-marital sex, as well as the benefits of waiting, empowering them to make an informed choice about their sexual behavior.![]()
Effective abstinence education programs are multi-dimensional and cover a number of critical topics in helping equip teens to make the only choice abstinence until marriage that eliminates the risk of STDs, negative emotional effects, and teen pregnancy. Choosing the Best offers five age appropriate programs for middle and high school students and provides sex and relationship education content in nine areas: Risks (emotional, STDs, teen pregnancy), Rewards (decision making, goal setting, marriage planning), Relationship Education (friendships, understanding guys and girls, healthy vs. unhealthy relationships, preventing sexual abuse and date rape), Alcohol (dangers of mixing alcohol and sex), Refusal Skills (setting boundaries, developing verbal skills and assertiveness skills), Pledge (making a commitment to abstinence), Character Development (responsibility, self-respect, courage, perseverance, compassion, respect), Parent Involvement (parent training and homework interviews), and Building Self-esteem (and appreciating unique qualities, interests, or skills).![]()
The only way to eliminate the risk of an STD is to be abstinent until you enter into a mutually monogamous relationship as is typically found in marriage, with an uninfected partner, and remain faithful in that relationship for the rest of your life. The emotional effects of being involved with someone sexually and then having that relationship end can be devastating, regardless of age. Even if a person has reached an age where they are emotionally more mature and better able to cope with these effects, the physical risks of STDs are still present regardless of age and can significantly affect a person’s health and life.
Postponing sex until a teen is out of high school does not eliminate, or in some cases, even reduce the risk. A recent survey of single women aged 20 to 25 showed that more than one-half had contracted HPV, the disease that can cause cervical cancer, which kills nearly 4,000 women each year.18 It would be nice to be able to tell teens that if they wait until they’re out of high school, or some “magical” age, that they would not have to deal with the physical or emotional consequences of premarital sex, but unfortunately this simply isn’t true.![]()
Choosing the Best is committed to providing medically accurate information. Choosing the Best curricula contain facts gathered from the most credible and current sources of information available, such as peer-reviewed, published journals and government agency publications. Because new medical studies and conclusions are always becoming available, Choosing the Best updates materials annually to reflect the latest information. Additionally, Choosing the Best has established a Medical Advisory Board, a team of medical experts that review and approve all curricula.
Mr. Waxman’s attempt to discredit abstinence-focused sex education is a disservice to our nation’s teens. Mr. Waxman is an aggressive and longstanding opponent of abstinence education and according to an October 2006 congressional review of the Waxman Report, it “fails to offer a fair and accurate assessment of abstinence education programs” and is “riddled with errors, half-truths and mischaracterizations.” The review, conducted by the U.S. House of Representatives Committee on Government Reform further states, “By any reasonable standard, it [the Waxman Report] cannot be considered a definitive statement on abstinence education and should not be taken as such.”
The congressional review found that in addition to inaccurately portraying the reviewed abstinence curricula, the Waxman Report also misrepresents the effectiveness of abstinence education and the high level of support for the abstinence message among parents and teens alike. “In recent polls, over 90 percent of teens and adults believe that teens should be given a strong abstinence message not to have sex until they are at least out of high school. Nearly 80 percent of parents think teens should be taught to delay sexual activity until marriage on in an adult relationship leading to marriage.”
To view the full Congressional Review of the Waxman report, please click here.
Click here to view our press release summary regarding the Congressional Review of the Waxman report, or to read the point-by-point response to each mention of Choosing the Best by Waxman.![]()
This study found that teens who took abstinence pledges delayed the onset of sexual activity by 18 months but that those who broke their pledge were less likely to use contraceptives. First, Choosing the Best was not included in this study and the results of this research in no way reflect the effectiveness of Choosing the Best. Secondly, making a pledge is only one element of an abstinence education program. In order to be most effective, a pledge must occur in the context of a thorough and compelling abstinence program such as Choosing the Best. However, Bearman and Bruckner’s study only evaluated pledging in generalthe context in which the pledge was made was not considered. For example, a student might have made their pledge during a complete abstinence curriculum, or while experiencing an hour long assembly, or after being merely stopped in the hall. Based on the design and methodology of this study it is impossible to make any conclusions about the effectiveness of either a particular abstinence program or complete abstinence programs in general.
There is much evidence that abstinence education works. For more information, please see the response to question #2 above.![]()
Choosing the Best programs do not include any references to homosexuality. Abstinence education is about encouraging teens to eliminate the risks of sexual behavior. All teens need this message, regardless of their sexual orientation.![]()
Choosing the Best programs do not include any references to religion. Abstinence education is about health for our teens. Although some teens that choose abstinence may also be influenced by their personal religious convictions, abstinence education is about making healthy choices to be free from the risks of STDs, unplanned pregnancy and negative emotional consequences. It is about freedom to pursue future dreams and goals, regardless of religious preference or conviction.![]()